I strongly don’t believe that Self-Discipline is a habit or
something we develop. We are disciplined
because something more important motivates us to be disciplined. For me it is our core values which are
responsible for my self-discipline.
In spite of your core values manifesting in self-discipline,
there will be days when you digress. I
do digress; I believe there is no harm in digressing a little now and then but not
any longer because the sense of “who I am” rebels against the digression, and I
come back into my discipline mode.
Recently, I saw a scroll hanging on the wall of my friend’s
office. Written on that scroll are some
Japanese symbols or characters (he said so I don’t know the difference between
Chinese and Japanese characters). I
asked him about the scroll. He said the
symbols on the scroll mean self-discipline in Japanese and it will remind him
of the self-discipline he needs to maintain.
That sounded crazy to me because you know what
self-discipline is according to me. How can a bunch of meaningless symbols (the scroll looked beautiful though)make me stay
self-disciplined? Being a close friend I
expressed my thoughts to him. His reply
made me change my opinion. He said three
things, one it is not as easy to maintain self-discipline in this information
era as it was in Iron Age or even industrial age. There are thousands of things
trying to get your attention, television, hoardings, continuously ringing mobile
phones, SMS, facebook, messengers. Everybody
wants your attention and want you be as undisciplined as possible; two, when
people can see God in a symbol why cannot a symbol remind me of
self-discipline. I have the scroll on
the wall long enough that it represents self-discipline to me. Pretty convincing
isn’t it?
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